Introduction:
Welcome to today’s advanced English lesson, where we will explore the rich traditions and specialized vocabulary associated with getting married in English / Scottish cultures.
Marriage is a significant milestone marked by various customs, ceremonies, and rituals that differ across regions and communities. By examining these traditions, along with the precise language used to describe them, you will deepen your understanding of cultural nuances and enhance your ability to discuss marriage with both sophistication and accuracy. Let’s delve into the fascinating world of wedding customs and the vocabulary that brings them to life.
Getting married in Scotland: Watch the first 5 minutes only
Answer the following questions:
- In 1753 English introduced the “Marriages Act” What was the minimum legal age to marry in England?
- People who wanted to marry younger than 21 years old would travel up to Scotland and get married in small Scottish towns like Gretna. What was the minimum age for a girl and minimum age for a boy to get married?
- The local blacksmith performs the wedding ceremony in Scotland. What is a blacksmith.
- What is an “anvil”?
Reading:
Paragraph One: The custom of getting married at Gretna Green dates back to the early 19th century and is one of the most famous wedding traditions in Scotland. Located just over the border from England, Gretna Green became a popular destination for couples seeking a quick and legally binding marriage, especially when young lovers faced obstacles such as parental disapproval or legal restrictions. The village’s historic blacksmith’s shop, where marriages were performed, became a symbol of romance and rebellion, attracting couples from across Britain.
Paragraph Two: Historically, Scottish law allowed couples to marry by simply exchanging vows in the presence of witnesses, without the need for a formal clergy or religious ceremony. This made Gretna Green an ideal place for elopements, as it bypassed the more rigid procedures of marriage in England. Blacksmiths, known as “anvil priests,” officiated these quick ceremonies, often in a spirited and lively manner, emphasizing love and spontaneity over formality. This tradition helped establish Gretna Green as the ultimate romantic getaway for those seeking a quick and passionate union.
Paragraph Three: Over the years, the customs of Gretna Green have evolved, but the village remains a popular wedding destination, celebrated for its romantic history and picturesque setting. Today, couples often choose Gretna Green for its charm and symbolism of love overcoming obstacles. The tradition continues with modern ceremonies that blend historic customs with contemporary romance, preserving Gretna Green’s reputation as a timeless symbol of love and adventure.
Vocabulary:
1. **Wedding** – The ceremony of marriage.
2. **Marriage** – The legally or formally recognized union of two people.
3. **Bride** – The woman who is getting married.
4. **Groom** – The man who is getting married.
5. **Elopement** – A secret or hurried marriage, often outside of traditional settings.
6. **Vows** – Promises exchanged during the wedding ceremony.
7. **Ceremony** – The formal event where marriage takes place.
8. **Marriage license** – Legal document permitting a marriage.
9. **Officiant** – The person who conducts the wedding ceremony (e.g., priest, judge, or celebrant).
10. **Wedding vows** – Promises made by the bride and groom.
11. **Reception** – The celebration held after the wedding ceremony.
12. **Bridal shower** – A party honoring the bride before the wedding.
13. **Bachelor/Bachelorette party** – A celebration for the bride or groom before the wedding.
14. **Wedding dress** – The special dress worn by the bride.
15. **Tuxedo/Suit** – Formal attire worn by the groom.
16. **Wedding rings** – Symbols of marriage exchanged during the ceremony.
17. **Honeymoon** – A vacation taken by the newlyweds after the wedding.
18. **Wedding cake** – The cake served during the celebration.
19. **First dance** – The initial dance of the newly married couple.
20. **Marriage customs** – Traditional practices associated with weddings.
21. **Elopement** – Running away secretly to marry.
22. **Legal marriage** – A marriage recognized by law.
23. **Wedding invitation** – A card inviting guests to the wedding.
24. **Wedding party** – The group of people participating in the ceremony (bridesmaids, groomsmen, etc.).
25. **Unity ceremony** – A ritual symbolizing the joining of two lives (e.g., sand, candle lighting).
26. **Bridesmaid / Groomsman** – Members of the wedding party supporting the couple.
27. **Wedding venue** – The location where the ceremony takes place.
28. **Tradition** – A customary practice during weddings.
29. **Customization** – Personal touches added to the wedding to reflect the couple’s personalities.
30. **Marriage vows** – Promises of love and commitment exchanged during the ceremony.